How to Fix a Problem that Doesn’t Exist We’ve all been there.
A friend says something to you that makes you want to cry, and you think, “Oh my god, I wish I could just tell them to go fuck themselves.”
It’s a really common experience, but a problem you’ve probably never faced.
There are a lot of ways to solve it, but if you want a solution that’s practical, affordable, and easy to implement, you’re going to need to do some serious thinking about your options.
We’ve talked a lot about the pros and cons of various solutions, but it’s important to understand the risks that you’re facing when trying to fix something that doesn, in fact, exist.
So here are the top five reasons why you’re unlikely to ever achieve what you want:1.
Your friend or family member isn’t a problem solver.
You may be able to use technology to solve a problem, but even if you’re able to solve an issue with technology, it won’t solve it completely.
This is because the problem isn’t that simple, but rather, that you’ve created an unreasonable obstacle to solving the problem.
That obstacle is your own ignorance, and the fact that you can’t see the solution is probably part of the problem as well.
The problem isn`t that complicated; it just isn’t being solved properly.2.
You don’t have a lot at stake.
Your friends may love you, but they’re probably not the ones you care about.
If they didn’t, you probably wouldn’t have the same amount of respect for them.
That’s not to say they’re bad people; they just aren’t a priority.3.
Your partner or spouse has a lot to lose.
It’s important that you keep your partners and spouse happy and in good spirits, but don’t forget that you have a very real, tangible, and important stake in this situation.
If you’ve had to compromise in order to achieve the goal you want, you may not be as committed to it as you think you are.4.
You’re in the middle of a major life change.
If you’re in your early 30s, you might be in the midst of a divorce, but you don’t really have much in the way of debt or a job.
If that’s the case, the most effective solution to your problem is to just give up.
Instead of focusing on getting back on track, you should be looking at getting back to work, building a new life, or just making the most of your free time.5.
You just aren`t the right person for the job.
Being a great solution solver requires a certain amount of empathy.
That means that your partner needs to understand that you need to make sacrifices in order for them to achieve what they want.
They may be the right people for the work you’re doing, but your needs may not match theirs.
If your partner has been in a similar situation, you can start by making some adjustments that can make it easier for them, and it’s always possible to talk to them about how you might find the right solution to the problem that you`re facing.
For example, if you think that your friend has a job, you could make it harder for your friend to get their job back if you suggest that they find a job that pays less, or they could find a different job that’s better for them in a different part of town, or if they`re just interested in taking a look at your resume and interviewing for the position that you want.
The biggest challenge you’re likely to face in solving your problem, and there are many, is figuring out which options are the most feasible.
So you may want to think through all of the possible solutions, even if they don`t solve the problem perfectly.
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